Thursday, June 13, 2013

Domestic Discipline Contract


This contract contains rules, parameters, and consequences for a safe, healthy, constructive, domestic discipline marriage between husband (hereafter referred to as HOH) and wife (hereafter referred to as TIH).

HOH is the final authority on all matters of the household. TIH agrees to support HOH by being respectful, submissive, and feminine.


Rules are put in place to ensure a happy, healthy, harmonious home. This is to remain the number one priority of both parties concerned. Anything done or said that disturbs this harmony is subject to punishment and consequences from HOH. This list may be amended at any time after amendment is agreed upon by both the HOH and TIH.

The following list contains all agreed upon rules:

1. Never go to bed angry.
2. Do not push limits, test, or in any way "poke the bear".
3. Be honest 100% of the time.
4. Be polite at all times.
5. Be mindful of the household budget.
6. Keep in touch.
7. Be respectful at all times.
8. Maintain good hygiene and dress to impress.
9. House must be kept clean and orderly.
10. Never interfere with, negotiate, or obstruct the disciplinary process in any way once the final decision has been made.
11. Blog and journal are to be updated daily without exception.


Any discipline carried out must be within the boundaries of correction, prevention, or maintenance. TIH has the right to feel safe and free from petty punishments. HOH has the right to administer fair, consistent punishments and maintenance as he sees fit. HOH will not misuse his authority in any way, at any time, or this contract will be immediately null and void.


Punishments are used to correct behavior that is not acceptable. Severity of any punishment will depend on the offense, reason for committing the offense, how often the offense is committed, and attitude. A verbal or nonverbal warning may or may not be used at the discretion of the HOH.

The following list contains all agreed upon punishment methods:

1. Spanking-Spanking will be the most commonly used form of punishment. Spanking will consist of ten or more swats to TIH's bare bottom  with the HOH's  bare hand for warm up. After the warm up, the punishment spanking will commence in the form of ten or more swats to the TIH's bare bottom with the paddle, in addition to the original spanking punishment determined by the HOH. TIH is not to touch or rub bottom under any circumstances.

2. Time Out-Time Out will consist of thirty or more minutes of standing in the designated time out corner. Hands must be at TIH's sides. TIH must face the corner with nose in close proximity to the corner. TIH is to remain silent while in the time out corner, reflecting on behavior, choices, and prevention of such actions in the future. Duration to be spent in the time out corner by TIH is to be solely determined by the HOH without exception. Resisting a time out will result in a spanking, in addition to the original time out punishment determined by the HOH.

3. Sentence Writing-Sentence writing will consist of hand-writing a set number of sentences to be determined by the HOH. Lines must be neatly written. HOH will assign a reasonable due date for assignment to be completed. Sloppy writing and/or not completing the assignment by due date will result in a spanking. Resisting sentence writing will result in a spanking.

4. Grounding-Grounding will consist of the loss of all privileges for a certain amount of time to be determined by HOH. During this time no entertainment is to be used at any time, for any reason. This includes, but is not limited to: TV, radio, being outside, and seeing friends. During this time, a combination of spanking, time out, and sentence writing may be used at discretion of HOH. Resisting grounding will result in a spanking, in addition to the original grounding punishment determined by the HOH.

5. Bedroom Time-Bedroom time will consist of sitting on the bed in the master bedroom for a certain amount of time to be determined by HOH. TIH must sit on the bed, facing the wall during this time. No distractions will be allowed in the bedroom during this time. All books, pictures, phones, computers, and any other form of entertainment will be removed from the bedroom before this punishment commences. TIH is to remain silent while in the bedroom, reflecting on behavior, choices, and prevention of such actions in the future. Duration to be spent in the bedroom by TIH is to be solely determined by HOH without exception. Resisting bedroom time will result in a spanking in addition to the original bedroom time punishment determined by the HOH.


Maintenance spankings are used to ensure continuation of appropriate behavior and to keep TIH stress-free and respectful. Maintenance spankings will consist of ten or more swats to TIH's bare bottom with the HOH's bare hand for the warm up. After the warm up the maintenance spanking will commence in the form of ten or more swats to the TIH's bare bottom with the paddle. Total number of spankings for warm up and maintenance are at the sole discretion of the HOH. This will be done once a week, after a calm discussion of how to stay on track followed by a comforting period with affirming words from the HOH.


It is the HOH's responsibility to enforce all rules and the terms of this contract in a consistent, non arbitrary, fair manner. The HOH is responsible for administering discipline and punishments as set forth in this contract fairly, consistently, and in a timely manner. The HOH must be completely calm before administering any form of punishment to the TIH.

It is the TIH's responsibility to abide by all rules, terms, and conditions of this contract at all times, without exception, and to the best of her ability. TIH is responsible for maturely accepting any discipline deemed necessary by HOH in a calm, contrite, and composed manner. TIH may request additional bedroom time or time out to compose herself before punishment or discipline is carried out by the HOH. Previous statement becomes void if HOH determines that TIH is in any way taking advantage of additional time. Additional time is not to exceed five minutes under any circumstances.

This is the Domestic Discipline Contract between HOH and TIH. All parts of this contract are binding as long as both parties agree to all of the terms set out above. This contract expires and can be renewed one year after signing and agreeing to its conditions by both parties. By signing this document, parties agree to hold one another accountable and to in no way take advantage or legal action on the basis of fraud, abuse, or any other legal issue.

( Wife and husband sign and date document) 


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  3. An intersting subject. My husband and I have a contract that differs from yours in that either one of us can be on the receiving end of the paddle. Last Sunday it was my husband that received the paddling and in addition to that spanking I sentenced him to six more sessions that will take place every Sunday until November 15. He will be very well behaved during this period or else...!

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  5. My girlfriend likes sound spankings. She opened up to me after dating her for about 5 mouths. She told me she liked wanted real sparking. She likes to be taken back to when she was a kid. We began talking, after looking something up online I asked her about warm ups and safe words. She said “I never had a warm ups when I younger and I never had a word or phrase to stop it, it continued until I was sobbing out of control.” She wanted nothing less than an adult equivalent to real childhood spanking. At first I was sure about it and I wasn’t in to it. Than she lied to me, I think on purpose. I was going to let it go but she didn’t want to and told me she felt bad about and suggested I her a real spanking. I tied to talk her out of it, to no avail. I than tried scare her out of it. I told her that “if I do this, than I was going to do this it all the way and for real. There wouldn’t be any warm up meaning it would start off right away on the bare, with a implement, and as hard and fast, with a shock and awe experience, as I could and it wouldn’t be short spanking either. There would be no number games, so there would be any specified number of swats and no safe word to stop, I decide when it stop, not you, and that it won’t stop until you are crying hysterically out of control sobbing.” Her response was, “Isn’t that what a real adult equivalent childhood spanking is? That exactly what I want and need, just don’t be afraid and back out.” When we got home I grabbed a bamboo backscratcher and used the flat part of the handle. Half way across the room she took everything down to her knees to be completely bare. She slowly hobbled across the room and put her over my lap. She stayed in position and took it just like she wanted. I never spanked anyone. I started paddling her as hard and fast as possible. I sure got turned on when she clenched up tight and I saw her muscular definition in her butt cheeks as her bottom quickly turned from white read and welted. This was the first I saw her bare too. I paddle the dickens out of her and didn’t stop until she was bawling hiccup type crying out of control. When I stopped, she stiffened straight up, pushed her hips forward, flew her hands her ass rubbing frantically as she was hoping up and down. She did this post spanking dance performance for a good 30 seconds or so while everything slid down to her ankles, which oddly turned me on too. I just held her forever until she calmed down. Than thanked me afterwards, do I have a strange girl? Is something wrong with her that she likes real spankings that much? Is anything wrong with me for somewhat enjoying her do that post spanking dance? Am I the only one?

  6. Lol, lots of us out here!! Am I strange that I crave a 'real' spanking to correct behavior even though I really hate getting them because they hurt so much? And believe me, I will do something on purpose repeatedly to get spanked. Then while I'm laying over my fiance's lap wearing absolutely nothing getting an extremely hard, painful spanking, I sob and wonder why the hell I need this? I have no clue, but yet I continue to do it! Some guys have called me weird, my ex called me perverted, one thought I wanted a real head to foot beating (we broke up after that one), and the list goes on. For 25 years I thought I was strange until the wonderful world of internet came about and I googled it. So many out there feel the same way, I don't feel alone spank away, for enjoyment, for punishment, for maintenance, moodiness, whatever!!

  7. I get so turned on giving my girlfriend all kinds of spankings, from erotic to just because spanking and even real ones that make her loss her composure, cry and sob. I see it as a gift of submission she gives me. She always has a safe word unless it's a real one she like to get sometimes.

    Fortunately, I have a girlfriend who likes it also. She actually turned me on to it and brought out the spanko in me. Is it wrong to admit that I enjoy it? I get so turned on as I watch take her pants down knowing that she has given me full permission to spank her or sometime give her a real one. I have conflicting emotions inside. I don't like woman who are abused but I like spanking my girlfriend now.

    Its like is a psychological afrodeysic to me. I love the control aspect, its like asking me to discipline her is the ultimate sign of respect and I feel honored she choose me to have that authority.

    The actual spanking is exciting to me also. I mean when I turn her over my knee and it completely consensual I feel so stimulated by the whole experience. Seeing her beautiful bare bottom in front of me knowing she is expecting me to spank her and sometimes until she is crying hysterically is huge rush.

    For real ones she always like to to be spanked until she cries really hard. But she has a extremely high pain tolerance so I have to wail on her ass really and fast for a long time to push her over the edge to loose her composer. Sometime with no warm up, she likes the "shock and awe" effects from the start for rhe real spankings. For real one she relinquishes her safe word. She says a real spanking isn't worth taking unless it's unbearable and doesn't make her cry, so she expects me to make her cry hard. She likes the cathartic release about once a month.

    Is it wrong to feel good about having that authority and power she gave me. I also really get turned on when I start to spank her usually start out with my hand to start with. I am so stimulated when I see her clench up tight and I see all the muscular definition of her butt cheecks.

    It is electifying for me to hear her react and I feel compelled to smack harder and faster. To see her feet fluttering and her ass cheecks are turning red to bright red, its like I go into a trance in my mind. The longer the spanking goes on the more I get turned on and I am not sure if I should feel guilty of that or not?

    I have never seen her do the post spanking hop I heard some described but I might bring that up to my Jill. I usually use my belt over my knee for discipline and I feel the powerful sense of authority as I began removing it and I feel extremely respected by Jill as she begins dropping her pants when I order her too.

    Is something wrong with me, that after experienced spanking someone that I discovered that I really like it myself? Am I the only guy who feels these things. Or is my girlfriend just weird that she loves the pain of a good sound butt blistering once a month.

    Stories you might want to read that I enjoyed too that my girlfriend shared with me.

    Story 1: Spanking Friend and Nieghbor

    Story 2: Spanking Engagment

    Story 3: Spanking Contest

  8. I hear what your saying I'm thinking on asking my wife if I can spank her and I've been wondering if I'm just weird for wanting to do this

  9. domestic violence is not okay.

  10. anyone who raises a hand to another human being for submission should be sitting in jail.

  11. looking for this kind of