Never take advantage of your position as head of household (HOH). Just because your wife becomes lovingly submissive does not give you the right to take advantage of your position of power. If you think this is how the relationship is going to be, you have missed the boat. Go home! You are not ready for the honor of being in the position of "man of the house" or "head of household". Keep in mind that this woman is your wife. The one you promised to LOVE, RESPECT, CHERISH, and ADORE above all others before God himself and other witnesses. As the man, you are called to an EVEN HIGHER position in the relationship that goes beyond your wife being respectful to you. It is your responsibility to set the example and standard in your home and to love your wife as a husband should. Your wife should never FEAR you. Those who hope to gain respect through fear will lose all respect and become fearful.